Supporting a child with autism requires understanding, patience, and respect. Here are some important do’s and don’ts to keep in mind:

Do’s:

  • Do be patient and supportive—progress happens at different speeds.
  • Do use clear communication with visual aids or simple language.
  • Do celebrate strengths and encourage independence.
  • Do create structure with routines and predictability.

Don’ts:

  • Don’t force eye contact—it can be uncomfortable.
  • Don’t compare your child to others—every child is unique.
  • Don’t dismiss sensory sensitivities—accommodate where possible.
  • Don’t assume limitations—focus on potential and growth.

With the right approach, children with autism can thrive in their own way.

At Move Up ABA, we provide personalized ABA therapy that empowers children by focusing on both their strengths and needs.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How should I talk to a child with autism?

Use clear, simple language and visual supports when possible.

2. Is routine important for autistic children?

Yes, structure helps reduce anxiety and supports learning.

3. Should I discourage repetitive behaviors?

Not always—some are calming, but ABA can help redirect when needed.

Sources:

  • https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/five-tips-helped-improve-my-childs-behavior
  • https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/autism/autism-and-everyday-life/help-for-day-to-day-life/